Thanks.

Boss asked me into her office today and asked me why I had snapped at a colleague yesterday. Her question kind of came as a surprise for me because I had meant my words as a joke the day before. I explained that I was kidding and had clarified with the colleague earlier. She complimented that it was good that I had done a recovery and advised that I should learn to carry myself well in front of others, because there may be some who do not know me or do not take jokes very well. I agreed with her, absolutely, for I think I know better how some people really lack a sense of humor. More importantly, I was extremely grateful to her for having told me what she had because that meant a lot to me. I often joke without thinking properly and end up offending people without myself knowing, hence I really appreciate when people tell me what is wrong and give me a chance to change myself, if need be. My boss told me she saw a lot of potential in me and did not want a silly mistake to jeopardize my future. I do not have a very clear vision of my future as of now but I do appreciate her very kind intention in telling me so. I dare not say I would immediately change my ways but I am certainly going to try because this is something my mum has nagged at me about for the longest time and I do think I need to work on it. 

Earlier this morning, RJ shared her FB post with me. She wrote about me and how my IG post made her cry. I barely know this woman for four months but she has been a very nice person to me and one that is inspirational in every way possible. I cannot be more glad to have met someone like her.

After the walk, I bumped into two colleagues on the bus and went for dinner with them. They are two ladies in their fifties but it is always a joy to chat with them because they are so full of positive energy. It is never too difficult to find a negative person in the office because there is a huge bunch of them. It is however very rare to find people who would ignore the negativity and insist on being positive. I really appreciate such people and am thankful to stick around them. After all, we all need a little bit of positivity to get by? 

Many things took place within a day but I have so many lessons to learn and be thankful about. 

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